For most of my life, I made decisions based on practicality—choosing what was safe, predictable, and made the most logical sense. Whether it was buying a car, planning a trip, or deciding how to spend my time, my choices revolved around reliability over passion, efficiency over excitement.

But at some point, I started questioning—was I actually making choices for myself, or was I just following an ingrained habit of playing it safe?

The Moment I Almost Chose the Minivan

One of the clearest moments of this realization came when I was shopping for a new car. I had always dreamed of owning a Mustang—the sound of the engine, the feel of the road, the thrill of pure driving freedom. But when it came time to actually make the purchase, I found myself leaning toward something… more “practical.” A minivan seemed like the responsible choice—roomy, reliable, and efficient.

For a while, I was convinced they were right. I almost let logic talk me out of something I had wanted for years. But then, I had conversations with a few close friends and family members who reminded me of something simple but powerful—“It’s your choice, and it should make you happy.”

That support made all the difference.

Choosing Passion Over Practicality

With that encouragement, I went with my gut and bought the Mustang.

That first drive? Unforgettable. The way it hugged the road, the adrenaline when I hit the accelerator, the sheer joy of finally owning something I had dreamed about—it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

But beyond just the thrill of the car, something unexpected happened—I started seeing how often we let practicality dictate our lives.

Breaking Free Through Experiences

The same mindset elsewhere.

• Instead of sticking to my regular routine, I pushed myself to try rock climbing and mountain trekking. The controlled environment was predictable, but climbing a real rock face or trekking to a summit? That was an experience—unpredictable, rewarding, and absolutely thrilling.
• Instead of planning the same kind of vacations, I started exploring places that challenged me physically and mentally—where I could hike, explore nature, and experience the unknown rather than just ticking off tourist spots.
• Instead of overanalyzing every decision, I started saying yes to things simply because they excited me.

Each of these choices reminded me that life isn’t meant to be lived inside the lines of practicality. The best moments—the ones that truly make us feel alive—happen when we let go of the “logical” and choose what excites us instead.

Letting Go of the “Practical” Mindset

I used to think that everything I bought or did had to be built for the long run. I needed a car that suited for family, routines that were stable, and plans that were foolproof. But then I realized—practicality often stops us from truly living.

• Most people switch cars every 6-7 years. So why choose one that bores you just because it seems practical?
• Experiences shape us, and they don’t have to be logical to be meaningful. Sometimes, doing something just because you want to is reason enough.

Final Thoughts: What Are You Waiting For?

Looking back, I don’t regret a single decision where I chose excitement over hesitation. Whether it was buying a Mustang over a minivan, choosing to trek a mountain instead of just hitting the treadmill, or stepping out of my usual routine, every single one of those choices led me to something unexpected and incredible.

But the biggest realization? The right support system can make all the difference.

When you surround yourself with people who uplift and encourage you, the “big” decisions suddenly feel simpler, clearer, and more exciting.

So if you’re standing at a crossroads—whether it’s a car purchase, a dream trip, or stepping into a new experience—ask yourself:

Who’s influencing your decision? Are they helping you move toward happiness, or keeping you in the safe zone?

Because sometimes, the best things in life come when you stop overthinking—and just go for it.

What’s one thing you’ve always wanted but kept postponing? Maybe now is the time to make it happen.